Be A Dick: Kiss on, kiss off

Dear Dick,

Can you explain to me why some guys won’t kiss you while you’re having sex? I was recently picked up in a bar by this immensely well-hung guy who took me home and let me suck on his cock for about two solid hours. But every time I tried to change it up a bit and went to kiss him too, he pulled me off and back down to sucking his dick. What was that about?

Like Lips

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Dear Lips,

Did you ever stop to think that you’d entered into a sexual situation in which he considered it to be one thing and you considered it to be another? You give no details on the “cruising” portion of the scenario. What was said? Was anything said? Did you say, “I can’t wait to suck your dick for hours, sir!” or did you enter into a meaningful dialogue about your wants and needs related to the upcoming sex event? Did he make out with you before the sex but not during it? Was he acting like a non-reciprocating dominant oral top from the outset? Were you even paying attention to anything above his waist at all? Next time it’d be wise to be a little more observant about the men you’re letting hang out inside your throat. Then you might know why some want to kiss and some don’t.